Wednesday, 17 December 2008
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let me rephrase that...
ok. my last entry...i didnt know all the facts...and as of now everything is...decent. first of all...yes they were living together....but they were in the middle of a breakup. so now marcel's single...and we are unofficially together. the reason its unofficial...my mom doesnt like him because he's 7 years older than me...and she found out that we were talking through someone else...and supposedly not telling her about him is the same as lying?? im not sure how thats true...but whatever. if anyone would like to explain that to me...please...feel free. but anyway.
on to a different subject. im having a good day...its a chilly, rainy, windy day here in L.A. but whatever; its warm in my apartment. i've decided my day will consist of doing some work on the computer, cleaning the house, hanging out with marcel ((my family's back in kentucky for a while so i have the house to myself for the week lol)), and hopefully going to the gym. fun. i know. what can i say. i live a fun filled life LOL.
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You know that phrase, "the truth, the whole truth, and nothing but the truth?" I'm guessing that's where the trouble with your Mom began.
I'm also guessing you want to be treated like an adult & you want to be trusted. Talking through another party doesn't do anything to enhance either of those things. Actiing like you have something to hide, well, that breaks parental trust. That's a hard thing to get back when it's been violated. Not telling the whole truth implies you're hiding things, things that you know your Mom won't approve of. It's hard to find the right balance with the apron strings at your age an at this point in the parental relationship. I'm still working on these things with my own adult daughters. It's hard from the Mom angle, too, balancing what to say, how to say it, or when to keep quiet about something, how to be there even when you disapprove of something.
I hope you are enjoying the Christmas season. It must be very different in LA than up north. We have had a snowy week, with more to come tomorrow.
im happy that things are working out with you and marcel. i guess parents just want to know whats happening up front and not later on. i hope things work out with you and your mom.
Happy New Year!
hey thatonechick:) how ya doin? what's new in 2009? :)